Sunday, January 18, 2009

Getting better...at least in my head...

Well, I had a very very VERY productive Friday and ever since then, I've been feeling better about life. I have all the unemployment junk sorted out now (At least I'd freakin' BETTER), so all I have to do in unemploymentland is try to get at least 2 jobs a week, then file a weekly claim (which is like 10 yes/no online questions). And I already did my last week's claim already (it only became available at midnight last night) and I have already applied to 4 jobs for this week! Maybe it's sick, but I love how organized I have to be with all of this junk. Anyway, leaving unemploymentland....

...and onto Weddingworld! Jon and I met on site with the owners of the Tulsa Little Theatre. I am more in love with this little place than ever before! It needs help, but it's just something I can get excited about helping. The front lobby is PER-FECT, including a receptionist desk over to the right, where a guest book can sit and then some obligatory pictures of Jon and I.

Jon and I are currently in a battle over dressing rooms, though. There is an official dressing room upstairs behind the stage that is perfectly spacious and "decorated" (there are about 8 dressing mirrors, vanity lights, and a couch in there, to name a few...) for the bridal dressing room, but the downside is that the only way to get to the back of the auditorium from there is, well, a trip outside or a walk through the auditorium. What if it's raining? I don't know. The dressing room also has a very low, low, did-I-mention-low?, ceiling to it...which I'm wondering if all of Jon's men and Jon could handle for an hour.

Moving on to the other possible dressing rooms, though...there is a concession room which actually looks out into the theatre (with curtains to pull, though, don't worry) which is the next roomiest of possible rooms. No seats or mirrors, though. The other room is a sort of conference room, complete with a large glass table in the middle of the room. I asked about moving it and I think it could only be moved to a corner of the room, though, which kinda makes for an awkward dressing room. By the way, these rooms have 10-ft or more high ceilings.

Anyway, other problems to overcome: The auditorium floor is bare concrete that is not stained nor painted...nor all one color. The stage needs a new paint job. The walls have painted over water damage, so they look kinda rough. The sound system is subpar, I'm told (I have no idea...), and the lighting will need to be added to, I am also told, so that no one looks disgusting in pictures. You techically have to go through a side door to get up on the stage, but I kinda like that, so I'm going to call that a positive. :) Oh yes, and then the reception problem....there isn't another wide open space to have guests sit for a reception, so I'm halfway thinking of just having some tables behind the curtain onstage for the party and families to sit, and everyone else just sit back down in their "movie theater" seats and eat the dessert and drink their drink. I don't think I want a full dinner (Sorry, everyone!), nor do I want to add the extra $1000+ on top of the already growing bill.

Positives: The look is PERFECT in my head. Everything from the sea foam green doors you enter, down to the blue and green original seats. I have picture ideas where a camera is looking through one of the holes near the entryway onto Jon and me, making a circle frame around us. There is a huge outdoor balcony (like 20 x 20ft!) (with seafoam green railing, of course!) that has such an empowering feel to it, that would make adorable pictures with the entire party as well. There is a massive projector screen acting as the last curtain on the stage and projector to show a slideshow on. The owners are so nice, they are willing to work with us in every way possible.

Well, I'm starting to get distracted now, by a movie, but there are more positives and I just keep getting a thousand and one new ideas about the place! I go now!

Tabitha

Friday, January 9, 2009

Goin' soooo bad!!!

I'm sure everyone who would possibly read this knows by now, but I got laid off my job today. Probably not that big of a deal, I should be able to bounce back--but if you know me at all, you know that my head began reeling. Losing my job means losing X amount of money. Losing X amount of money means that I may have to borrow some $$$ to pay my bills. Oh, and that whole wedding thing. Wedding = $$$$$$. How can I plan to cost so much money to the people who love me and Jon? I just feel like a failure, you know? I'm going to go back to pre-Jan. 8th days and tell you guys about my happy wedding plans as of recently.


I added more pictures of my wedding ideas on Facebook (and so subsequently here ;^P), so have a looksie at those <HERE>. The new ones include pictures of the swans Mary (Jon's mom) bought me on a whim once, the bridesmaid dresses I'm in love with, and most importantly, of my forerunner of a ceremony site. It's hard to think back to how happy all of this did make me, but I do remember that it did. If I can still afford a real wedding, then I think it will be great and just how I want it.



Anyway, I'm done blogging for today. I'll keep everyone posted on the job hunt and possible move. If you have time, please keep me in mind for these next few days/weeks/months.

Tabitha

Thursday, December 25, 2008

Let's wrap it up

I enjoy stylistic wrapping of presents and here are a few examples:

2001...This may have been the beginning of the creativity.  A friend's present.
2001...two-tone wrapping job, a beanie baby shoved in a wrapping paper tube (head showed when bag was removed...haha), and a starfish toy
2003...Mom didn't have a Christmas tree, so I made one out of wrapping paper.  It's the one on the right....I think some of the other presents are of my doing.
2003: Notebook paper with drawings.  This was a fake present.

Christmas 2007

Jon's b-day 2008 - hid a birthday brownie in the microwave.

Christmas 2008...very creative year.

Bridesmaid presents 2009

Christmas 2010...bet you never guess what the first 3 are!!!

2011 Christmas: One real, one funny/fake, one completely fake

Thursday, October 9, 2008

Goin' sooo well!

I'm still really pumped about this website! I have pretty much fixed up everything except for the wedding party and wedding details pages, and maybe adding a few more albums to the photos section. But other than that, we are up and running! (Oh, and the maps page is up yet, but I gotta have a place to map first. ;^D) Anyway, I really need to get some sleep after tweeking a few more things. Goodnight!

Tabitha

Wednesday, October 8, 2008

Finally! A Wedding Website!

Oh my gosh...I think I have found my ultimate wedding website! I've seen a thousand others and looked into their features, but they're just not "geek" enough for me. This one seems to be juuuust right. AND I'll be able to keep everyone informed after we're married! Awesome! Anyway, I gotta go play with this some more. You just wait...I'll get this site looking exactly like I want!

Tabitha